We live in a society today that prides itself on honesty. We should be upfront and honest with those in our lives about every aspect of our lives. Honesty is the best policy, right?
But does the societal emphasis on honesty have to have an impact on your life with your sugar daddy?
This is probably one of the most thought over, and asked questions by newcomers to the Sugar Bowl lifestyle. Where on one hand, you would like to keep your loved ones informed on your life decisions, you may not feel comfortable sharing the details. Before we delve too deep on what you should do, let's talk about the pros and cons of each choice.
The Pros of Telling Your Loved Ones.
There may come more than a few situations in your sugar dating lifestyle where it may become prudent to tell someone. If you are going on a date with a new potential sugar daddy, for instance. You may want to have someone in your life who knows where you are, and knows how to contact you to make sure everything is going well. You will experience some measure of increased safety.
In addition, you will have a sense of lifted pressure when it comes to hiding what activities you are up to. By keeping your lifestyle a secret, you may find it hard to explain why you are suddenly going on trips to exotic places, or have more money than normal. The stress of evading these questions can build if you haven't told anyone.
The Cons of Telling Your Loved Ones.
The most obvious con in the sugar dating arrangement, is facing potentially judgmental criticism from family and friends. As unfortunate as it is, society has just not fully embraced the dating arrangement lifestyle. In that case, unless you have a very open and accepting family, you may face some backlash. You may risk damaging your personal image in the eyes of your closest loved ones.
Another potential downside is those in your life viewing you as a 'prostitute'. Many people simply don't understand the differences between escort services, and the Sugar Bowl lifestyle. This can easily lead to them labeling you in an unwanted fashion.
Ultimately, your dating and life choices are your own. You are under no obligation to inform anyone but yourself of your personal choices in your romantic endeavors. If you choose to keep your life in the Sugar Bowl to yourself, that's absolutely fine. Plenty of people keep aspects of their personal lives to themselves every day, this doesn't have to be any different.
However, if you do feel like the burden of hiding becomes an emotional strain, it's best to simply come clean. If you have a family and group of friends who are loving and supportive, they should trust you enough to know you are doing what is best for yourself. There is nothing wrong with the sugar dating lifestyle, and in the end you should never be left feeling guilty for entering into a sugar dating arrangement. Follow your gut, and do what your instincts tell you will be best for you, and your future.
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